Sophie's Imaginarium

Short answe is NO! And I explain why.

Hello, Sophie here from Sophie’s Imaginarium.

The Internet Lie:

Thinking about your sp or affirming for your sp give them the telepathic and energetic ick. This then drives them away and keeps you in a state of lack and/or chasing. NOT TRUE. As far as I can tell from my experience, affirming for and thinking about my sp (especially in the desired outcome with SP) actually improved our contact and connection and showed me more and quicker movement.

• The Reality Check:

We have people and things in our lives that we think about all the time. Whether it’s conscious, subconscious or even unconscious white noise. I mean if you live with a partner or parents or kids, don’t you constantly think about them? Would they not be driven away by this by that stupid logic? I live with my dad and grandma to provide my grandma 24/7 care, i think about them all the time, even if i don’t fully notice, and yet my situation remains stable and manifested as my everyday.

• The “Crush” Phase:

You know as well as I do, if you’ve ever caught feelings for someone aka a romantic SP, you go through the obsessive crush phase where they drive you to distraction; whether you want it or not. It is a normal human process. I mean you have to wonder if these online crappy coaches have ever actually lived a real life.

• The AuDHD Superpower:

What about people who have addictive personalities, overactive minds and are neurodivergent? I myself suspect and have good reason to suspect I have AuDHD (a combination of Autism and ADHD). We can’t just stop thinking about things that are top priority or have monopolised our interest and focus. Right now, just getting back into my non fiction manifesting content production is capitalising my mind because of the novelty and excitement phase, as well as i am hyper creative and love content production – is is very addictive. My problem area in manifesting is SPs and romance, hence my mind has to fixateuntil it has solved it. This is where neurodivergence is a super power when channelled correctly.

• Channelling the Fixation:

In manifesting I channel this fixation aspect of my mind to normalise the end goal i want. For example I did this with money and my eBay sales back in covid and got great and rapid results. But manifesting money is painfully dull for me vs SPs now. I have never had a long term fully committed relationship hence the hyper focus is fixed on that new experience (i have dated and etc but never settled down which is what manifesting SP is all about for me long term – whether it ends up being my main sp right now or another sp).

• Ditching the Clicker:

Occasionally I will do the clicker or affirmation counter challenge but rarely. I find because i have to carry my phone round with the apps to get my reps in and it clashes with how i naturally affirm and focus – which is while doing chores or just resting and chilling with coffee etc.

• The June Proof:

At first when I started my current and most recent challenges with improved contact then with this current July challenge of constant contact, it was scarce contact and not consistent at all. We were in contact. There was no bad blood or no contact. We were in contact for the reasons we were (I won’t give too much into in name of personal privacy and for privacy of all involved). It just wasn’t the contact I actually want. Nor was it the contact of more flirty and romantic. When I ended up doing 12 days of my June challenge, that changed rapidly to a turn around time of 9-12 days and multiple times – with a good back and forth chain of messages. Even getting more on the closer and flirty or playful side of things vs seemingly platonic only or mainly.

• The Control Panel:

Also remember when we think about SPs, via EIYPO, we just ping and show up in their minds. They just start noticing they are constantly thinking about us. They see it as their own thoughts. People cannot be thinkers in our mind. When it comes to our mind we are only one with choice of focus and free will to engage with the countless and unlimited thoughts that emanate in our minds every second. Yes youmay think, oh well SP could choose to suppress their thoughts of us while we manifest them, whether they are into conscious manifesting or not. Well I have news for you, I think I was always manifested by all my romantic SPs. And for me this actually made me feel more sexy and attractive. Now there’s loads of rabbit holes we can get into with this topic and theories etc. But we don’t need to know all the nuances or micro details for practical application.

• Limerence vs. Healthy Focus:

Most coaches who teach this stupid idea of telepathic ick are confusing real limerence and toxic insecure SP manifesting vs how manifesting really works in practice. There is a massive difference between a healthy, focused protocol to manifest a long-haul partner, and desperate, toxic phone-checking. Don’t let these coaches shame you into thinking your natural focus is “lack” just so they can sell you a 10-step course placebos.

Thank you for reading this post.

Let me know your thoughts…

Do you have any SP success stories that disprove the Telepathic Ick?

Until next time, stay awesome and keep experimenting for yourselves.